One of my friends has five beautiful, well-behaved children under 12. She's obviously doing something right; they're great kids.
Last night I mentioned that I'm going to get a taser to help me "discuss" issues with my 16-year-old son and inspire him to be more motivated. She very generously offered me a video on how to be a "Love and Logic" parent.
I'm getting the taser. And, perhaps, when my friend has five teenagers I'll loan it to her.